A lot of what we do at Christmas is traditional or habitual. We do the things we always do, whether it be national tradition or family tradition. We usually cook an enormous Christmas lunch and eat far too much, and probably watch Christmas TV. We may even watch the Queen’s speech, if you live in the UK.
We also give and receive presents, buying what we hope the recipient will like. It is a time of generosity; of spirit and of actions. We hear the story of Jesus being born in a stable with seemingly poor parents, yet they are visited by three wise men and given gold, frankincense and merr. We also hear the story of Father Christmas flying around the world and giving presents to children.
Many people give more to charity at Christmas too, as the generous spirit of the season is so infectious. It is certainly a time of giving. There is a lot of focus on the recipient when we give. Will they like it? In the case of charity, will it help them? However, there is something to be said for how giving makes us feel. When we give we feel good, but less so if we give in order to feel good, and more so if we give in order to make others feel good. I know which one I prefer.
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