As I have begun the process of becoming more self aware I have realised that I have often tried to be seen as a Mr Fix It, by trying to be the one with the right answers. My realisation was that this desire to be seen this way was my Ego looking for praise.
As I looked deeper into this is I saw that the underlying motivation was to help others live well, and it was the application of the Ego that was morphing this motivation. A better method of helping others to live well is to try to create value in every interaction I have with others. Sometimes this is not trying to fix anything it is just being with someone in their hurting.
Often we try to fix a situation for someone, but all they really need is someone to listen.
The Fullfilment Project 