I took this title from this TED Talk about science and education and how the best way to educate and pursue science is to explore what we do not know. It should not be the collecting of facts and showing the ability to repeat them on command.
This applies to our lives too. We usually know very little about how to live a fulfilling life, because no one teaches us how to find this out. We don’t really know what questions to ask or what parts of ourselves to explore.
The guidance is there in religious texts and writings on philosophy and psychology, but we are not exposed to them in our education. Or if we are, we are not given guidance on what questions to ask. In some cultures and religions we are told “This is the way” and are expected to follow it.
My advice is to read widely, use a journal to explore ideas and get to know different kinds of people. Learn what it is like to walk in another person’s shoes and then learn how to walk in your own. Your life is a journey, so don’t spend your life living in a cul-de-sac.